Telemark - what do you mean by your "nice guy" traits?

I've always felt like I've done the right thing and suffered because of it. Are we to behave like the "bad guys" to have a better life?

M47
W45
D10 (Has CP)
D7
M12 T14
ILYBINILWY 5/1/11
Asked for seperation 5/10/11
Seriously DBing 7/1/11
W admitted to 2 EA's on 11/3/11.
Evidence of PA 11/5/11 - Definite evidence of PA 11/20/11
D - Final 7/11/12