I have been on the roller coaster already and that is why I keep going backwards. What is some other suggestions to go forward. I have screwed up on a bunch from the list of 37. Now I have to start over.
Read the books - DB & DR and anything else that proves helpful. Focus on you. Read the various threads on this message board. There are pearls of wisdom sprinkled all over the place. Use what applies and is helpful. Ignore that which is not.
Since it has only been a month, I guess I have a lot of time to get my act together and give her space.
Actually, you don't have a lot of time to get your act together. You need to get your act together starting right now.
Yes, it will take a lot of time to work through this process but you need to work on yourself now.
Yes, give your W space. As much as possible for as long as possible. Space and time and work on you.... that needs to be your mantra for the forseeable future.
God speed!
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It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
