If your partner is more broken than you, you'll leave. If you are the broken one they'll leave and vice versa.
I don't agree with this. I think the partner who leaves - unless there is abuse - is the one who is "more broken". They have the inability to deal with the relationship, and would rather run away than face the hard work needed to address the problems. That is not healthy in anyone's book.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS