Well, I'm away with my H on a business trip. He's in conferences and I'm hanging out. That said, I did go back and read your sitch from beginning to about May and then skipped fwd.
I agree with both Sandi2 and Harrier in their feedback to you. I may have missed some key parts because your W seemed pretty invested in her EA w her boss and now is suggesting a job for you so you can be happy.
I have my own thoughts as a LBS and a woman. Before I speak I'd just like to find out more about where you are emotionally.
Affairs are not for sissies......THAT is for sure. DB is a grueling workout. You've done so well.
I have to meet H for lunch. I'll be back later hopefully.
M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29 S 22,21, 19 Bomb 4/10 It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013 We all have work to do
The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.