Sorry to keep bombarding you guys with questions, but I have another (hopefully) quick one.
As far as the birthday card idea...the birthday right before my wife and I got married she gave me a card that had two dogs on the outside and on the inside says, simply, "Bada Bing...Bada Boom...Bada Birthday!" I still have it.
We always made jokes about that card and would say that phrase to each other every time we had a birthday. Well, I found a place that sells them online. I thought I might order that card and send it to her for her birthday. I'm not going to write anything mushy on the inside or anything, just "Happy Birthday!" and let that be it. I was thinking maybe that particular card would be a way to kind of make her smile. Is that too much? It isn't a mushy card, but i guess the implications should be mushy. Anyway, as always, any help or advice is appreciated.