Peter listen to them. I did the same thing until middle of September and she kept getting angrier. For the past 7 weeks I kept busy, go to my IC, go to a divorce care group, call people, I do things around the house. I hang with my D more. I walk 3 miles during work hrs. My W has since been nicer, we even ate breakfast 2 days in a row this week, she hasn't done that in a while. I had a desperate day yesterday but I got 2x4s and it help to calm me down. I also live with my W but I stay out of her way and only talk about our D14 or very superficial stuff. She now even answers if I ask a question. Some positives but this will take a long time. TM is right our WAS have been thinking for a while that they wanted out. So back off if you want to save this. Hang in there
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
