What do I do next?

[luvhurts49]

I'm trying to come up with something simple to say without drawing out too much emotion--just a simple statement that says how I feel and that I know about the A and OM. Below is what I have come up with. Any opinions or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Wife, I know you are having an affair with OM and it has been going on for some time. I want to let you know, that you have hurt me and our family greatly by your actions and the trust that you have broken cannot be easily repaired. I refuse to be hurt by you any longer and I will not share your heart with him. I know that I won’t be able to forgive you unless you can first admit that what you have done is wrong and show remorse. I know that our family cannot ever be whole again until that happens.