What do I do next?

[luvhurts49]

@Accuracy: Interesting thoughts on rating your feelings. I don't think that I would rate very high on any particular feeling at this point, but I will give it some thought though. I've actually thought about the phone coaching, but I simply can't afford it. Also, time is something that I have very little of at this point. Any time I have is so I can spend it with my boys.

@sandi2: As far as confronting my W and her A, I've been trying to think of all her reactions in order to prepare myself, but if you would like to share any of those "nasty ways she might give as an answer", please do so as there may be some that I haven't thought of.

While I can forgive my W for her A, she still needs to know that I know she is having an A. Up to this point, I believe that she still thinks that I don't have any idea about her A or that it is something that began well before she left. That she needs to know what it is that she is doing, not just to our M, but to our kids as her time with them is centered around buying them things and letting them watch TV. She doesn't talk to them, she doesn't spend time with them, and she really doesn't play with them. My oldest even told me that when he sits down next to my W on the couch, she will get up and go sit in the recliner so no one can sit next to her. I also assume she does this so she doesn't have to hide what she is doing on her phone (texting OM all night while she has the kids).