A fork in the road - EA admitted by wife

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Have you discussed with your L that you would like as much time as possible to turn things around? Did your L talk about any strategies you can use to slow things down legally?

Remember that consistency is the most important thing in your 180's. Very hard, but you must be consistent with your behavior to make the changes believable. Little backslides can wipe out tons of hard won advances.

I have a problem with talking too much. I *like* to tell my W how I'm feeling, I like to tell her how much I love her. I like having R talks, and my W does not. I can appreciate how difficult it is to suppress this urge, sometimes you just want it out. Keep working on it, by now you've probably seen that explaining your feelings and point of view has either no impact, or the opposite impact. That's a hard lesson to internalize, but one we need to learn.

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