Ok, thanks for the advice! A card it is. It is so hard at the moment because she has pretty much pulled back as far as she can go. It's hard to keep faith that this will work if you know what I mean. I'm doing my part over here by working on sobriety and trying my best to GAL. I can't really do any 180s since we aren't talking. Perhaps not texting her at all is kind of a 180. I know she really likes this other guy so it makes it difficult to not say anything, you know? At the rate they seem to be going, I'm worried they will get engaged or something. However, this is kind of what she did last time, getting really serious really quick after we split up so maybe it's more of the same. Thanks again, and I will try to hold back on my part.
