Upside Down

[Coyote]

"If a friend was about to make a huge mistake shouldn't she be called on it?

I should have an equal say in what happens with our children.

The craziness and unfairness is really tough for me to swallow."

She is in her own world right now and not very rational. Working through her own issues at the moment. It will take some time. Not much you can do to explain things in this situation. Just be the best you can be for your kids, for yourself, and for her when she's ready.

By the bye, have you thought of having a good BBQue with friends and family? Works wonders! Good place for some ideas here is http:[edited by dbmod: non-db links are not allowed]