Your statement about your W being "too proud to come crawling back" struck me as something worthy of further exploration. It would appear to me that if that is indeed what your W would feel if she decided to come back, then there is still some work to do on your part.
Never loose sight of this.
Often, and at any time during the process, the LBS gets angry (which is OK and normal) and looks at R from a punitive position to punish the WAS if they were to return (which is NOT OK)...
