Never noticed that before, GJ... AFAIK there's always a reply, quote, quick reply, and quick quote... *shrug*
You are right, of course... there IS a perfect way to handle your sitch and come out on top...
The problem is Chaos Theory... sorry... there's no way you can read your H's mind and no way to know where on the matrix the universe currently exists...
And that's why we work on ourselves. Because the BEST chance, regardless of where we are on the matrix, is to grow and become the people our spouses would be fool to leave... and if they do... well... would you really want to be with a fool who wasn't prepared to grow with you?
What are some GAL activities and 180s you are doing or are planning to do? That's a good start...
