S12 told me last Tue (the day before going to his mums) that he doesnt want to go there at all now.
I said to both of them, that W is still your mum and you need to see her, and she needs to see you.
No matter what, this I believe is the right thing to do, and I will alway do what I believe is right. Some people I know have said, you know the stuff, use the kids etc etc, and have said I am doing the honerable thing, and they didnt know if they could....and fair play to me.
I'm not doing it for affirmation, its just right
I only siad to the kids again yesterday, something like
Look, mum is in a difficult place right now, try not to get into arguments with her, you wont win anyhow.
I have told D14 a bit about MLC as she understands more, maybe I am doing it to try and justify the hurt she sees and make excusses, IDK, suppose I am trying to protect them
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more
