Just though I would check in before going off to bed LOL
J3B, been seeing a lot of your posts from the 4th (i think Mila thread, plus others) your like the jedi master LOL
Anyway.....
Yep, spot on with the kids.
I enform them of things, more so with D14 than S12 for obvious reasons. I tell them I dont want to know anything about want W is doing or what, but some things come out.....
D14 is at that age where she talks to her BF about things, S12 on the other hand is a typical boy, and is a bit of a worrier, so I have to keep an eye on him, and try and be there for him if he needs to talk.
For example, this was the happenings of October 27 (your right also this is a way of getting things out of my head and journalling it all)
I'm sure W thinks she only has 1 child. She calls D14 every day, but only called S12 4days after she dropped him off last. I heard him say why don't u call me, she must of said she does, as S12 said I have no missed calls from you......
He said to me after that mum keeps lying to them, and he doesn't trust her.
In the evening W popped round to give them some money for our weekend away (hever come in now as this is a boundary I put in place months back), 30 pound+ 10 pound pocket money she told them at the weekend, u should see there disappointment as she only gave them 10 pound. She said she had no money......usual story
Then S12 says to me
S12 - Dad would you ever lie to me.
M – No, but only if it was to stop you getting hurt
S12 – Mum lies all the time, she lies to everyone
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more
