Hey, get off my thread, I just finished cleaning up the blood from the last round Lol. Ian, I'm very active. Anything offered at the churches I've attended, I'm there for. In the past I've taken yoga classes, dance classes, Nia classes...the list goes on. I've met nobody. Maybe I just wasn't in the right head space at the time, who knows. I'll continue to be active because I enjoy being active but the online stuff is an adjunct, something to try. Hey, people can screw you just about anywhere if they want to. My last brief fling is a perfect example. I've got tons of horrible stories from people who met everywhere else but online too. It all comes with the territory, I guess. When you're looking, you're vulnerable and you have to take care of yourself. Thanks for your thoughts though, it's important to get differing views. Btw, I was top bowler in our team building outing a while back. Hey, Wednesday after I meet with my lawyer I get to go back to work and meet with this cute little social worker from another agency. She phoned and wanted to come in and talk to me about a mutual client. Normally I'd suggest we do this by phone but in this case I made an exception. I'll do anything for the good of a client Lol. I met her about a year ago and told my male co-workers I was in love. So, I'll check out her ring finger again and see what vibes I get and who knows, maybe I'll get lucky at work again...or maybe I'll get hit with a harassment complaint lol. And guess what, she's a Filipina. They just can't seem to stay away from me!