NTX, Glad you checked in today. I like the modification of your screen name, BTW. It's more positive!
I think your W is questioning your changes and she's unsure of whether to believe them at this point. Just keep them going and be consistent. She will likely need more time to be able to trust the changes.
I wouldn't worry about not discussing the day to day stuff right now. The space will probably benefit both of you right now.
I'd suggest holding off on starting any conversation about moving back, reconciling, etc. at this point. There's a good chance it would backfire. It may be seen as pressure to speed things up, and there's a risk it would push her away.
