I have a friend at work that went through the same thing 5-6 years ago. His wife was a WAW and everything I tell him about my sitch he said is the script his wife followed. The did divorce and were apart for about 1-2 years and then they started dating again and eventually remarried. They probably have one of the best marriages I have seen.
Anyway, he said him and his W were talking about my sitch this weekend and they both think based on what's happened lately that my wife realizes she has made a mistake and is too proud to come crawling back, and that she injects herself into my life from time to time in hopes that something will happen were the entire sitch will come up and I actually ASK her to move back home.
I have to admit, I haven't actually asked her directly to move back, or to reconcile. I think she knows that's what I want. It seems like that conversation would be totally anti-DB so I don't think I should say that at all.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012
