Just checking in to give you all an update. I know some questions were asked by some of you and I WILL get to them soon. Im not avoiding them or brushing them off.
I hope all of you are well.
My lawyer and I have sat down and talked and I have recently filled out all the necessary paper for the D. When I saw my kids names on those papers, man was it hard. I feel like everything Ive put up with for the last year hit me again X 10!
When W as contact by her lawyer letting her know that I have retained a lawyer of my own, W called me and her tone in her voice was like the W I once knew. I had to stop and make sure I was talking to the right person.
W told me “ I can imagine all the horrible things you said about me to your lawyer”. Actually, I really didn’t have to say anything. I just showed him all of her nasty texts.
She then told me “ I hope you didn’t misunderstand anything that happened within the last year. I really didn’t do anything wrong. After all, we were separated. It was wrong for me to get into a R with OM. Ive decided to just concentrate on the kids. So, how do you see the future between you and I? I hope you know that Im not going to fight you. Please just don’t do anything in regards to the kids. Don’t try to take them from me. You can do what you want to me, just leave them alone”
I told her that I DID NOT have the intentions of taking them away. I really don’t want to put them through that.
Later that week, I went to see my babies and low and behold, OM is STILL there. That’s when I acknowledged my gut feeling when I thought to myself that everything she said was a big LIE AND AN ACT!
I had spoken to her cousin about the recent events. I had told her cousin what my W had said.
W called her cousin a couple of days ago. When her cousin asked her about what W said, as expected, W DENIED IT ALL!
When Halloween came, my kids came to me asking me to buy their costumes. (W told me SHE was buying them) When I asked why didn’t mommy buy the costumes, they told me that she claimed that she didn’t have enough $ to buy it because W bought hers and OM costumes!
I’ll be honest, when I heard that, I felt a very dark could come over me and just about every bit of evil though ran through my head. It took divine intervention to keep me from doing something that would land me in JAIL!
Thank God for the power of prayer!
Kids have been asking me allot lately that why hasn’t God answered their prayers about mommy and daddy coming back together again. The only answer I could give them is that its all on HIS time. Just keep the faith.
Recently, I was baptized. IT FELT GREAT! Our church is like one BIG family. When I went under and came out, I heard a big ROAR! Friends and church members were cheering and giving a standing ovation. WOW!
Before we get baptized, they play a small video about why we chose to get baptized. I was told that my testimony was very inspirational.
I had recently found out the OM has two kids of his own. A 25 yr old kid with two kids that is trying to move in with a 38 yr old woman with 3 kids and a mother in law??? If hes not around for his own kids, what makes her think hes going to be anything worth a damn to mine?
I promise to answer the questions Mach and 25 have asked me soon. For now, got more legal stuff to do.
Have a great week everyone!
Me: 37 W: 37 Married Feb 14 1997 Seperated Thanksgiving weekend 2010 No divorce filed yet 1st born son:13 2nd daughter:9 3rd son:4 Trying hard to detach
