Are there any success stories here?

[NTX_Dad]

Just posting to further drive the point home.

Its script, and a very intentional dagger in your heart. I've had this one used on me before too, and it [censored]. Eventually you'll see them for what they are not take them seriously, and if you say the right words will even see them decrease, and maybe slowly disappear.

Haven't been following your sitch, but I'm sure she'll use it again.

Just say a variation of this:

"I'm sorry you feel this way, but there's nothing we can do, this is the path we both are on now".

Here's the thing many WAW's don't want to need you, but want to be needed. Be strong learn not to need her, its your best hope of winning her back.

I can tell it's a script/pattern. The part I am struggling with is whether she's consciously doing it. I still find it hard to believe that she's a horrible person that wants to play games. I wonder if the script is just a symptom of their "syndrome".

To be honest though, she did say on a couple of occasions that "you never know what can happen" and a couple of other times I asked her if she was happy and she said she's very unhappy. Maybe that was all part of the script too, but it seemed genuine at the time.