I have also detailed the first few posts in this thread to lead up to W's last solicitors letters, which were a bunch of lies based on those events detailed.

I feel that W is doing this for a few reasons

1) as I have gone dark, and W kept on asking to talk, be friends, call her if I needed anything, wanting to tell me about her life/work etc, but have said to her, sorry thats not us anymore. Sorry, but she has OM, I will not let her cake eat, OM has to fill her tank up (yes I have also read 5LL, which I forgot to mention)

2) I have the kids 10 days out of 14, W has them every other Wed, Thur, Fri & Sat. this was the kids choice, what they wanted, and since this has been in place (3 months ago, W has been soooo nasty and angry) but cannot see how she is/has treated the kids for them to want this. And by throwing mud, she could IMHO try and discredit me to get the kids back, just IHO of course. I am soooooo proud of my kids, and them wanting to be with thier dad for the majority of the time, its soooo unusual, but it makes me feel a great dad, and I love it (although draining at times!!!!)


Me - 37
W - 38
D - 14
S - 12
Together - 16
Married - 12
Bomb - April 13, 2011
W moved out - May 13, 2011

The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more