We have not communicated in anyway for 3 weeks now, well W text me last night actually requesting a date to pic up some christmas decorations and a tree, as "money is tight" even though she just sped £145 on her haircut.
Dark/no contact is for me, period. I got to a stage where the "grenades" as I called then (but now understand they were touch and goes) were confusing, but its more of getting away from the lies, nastyness, blame projecting etc as this pulled me down and I started to question me, to the extent where D14 said "your not the crazyone dad, mum is" after W's last CRAZY solicitors lette, which I will post about soon, and to build ME back up and help me detatch. Yes the by product is getting W to miss me, and see consequences of her actions, by that is as I say, a by product and not the main driver.
GAL
My GAL are split into two, 1 with kids, 1 without as detailed above
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more
