October 6

The next morning I woke to more (actually the first one I read W sent at 00:35!) The the last few text were:

M – Please, take the settlement and leave me alone now

W – F**k off will I sign anything now

M – Nice mature response, what do you want to leave me alone

W – My kids

M – That’s nothing to do with me, sorry Y can u not see this still!!!! Take the settlement and leave me alone

W – No!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

M – Please, leave me be, leave me alone now please

W – U wish

2hrs later I responded with

W, you are a strong intelligent woman, even without D14 cb I am sure u will be able to sort things out. Please now leave me alone

W reply – U will be receiving a letter from my solicitor I will not be contacting u again that is my final decision, one last thing I wish I had never set eyes on u, ur a very cruel man. Pls don’t speak to my side of the family again

So, I spoke to my solicitor and explained what happened last night, and he said he was concerned for S12 to hear what W was shouting and that we should write to her solicitor saying this is completely unacceptable, I will not tolerate this kind of behaviour and if it repeated we would file an injunction. Which is what he wrote.


Me - 37
W - 38
D - 14
S - 12
Together - 16
Married - 12
Bomb - April 13, 2011
W moved out - May 13, 2011

The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more