This was W day to pick the kids up for her 4 nights, This is the first time really that I bit, I know I shouldn’t have, I had been doing quite well with db principles, but something had to give.
W (this was her 2nd text) – I f**king hate u!!!!!!! My kids don’t want to b with me anymore, u win xxxx take everything cause im not gonna be around much for much longer
M – W!!!!!!
M – I win nothing, its not a competition. I would rather be happy than right, any day of the week. Please don’t talk like u r, please
M – The kids love u, and so do others, Please W, don’t talk like u r
W – Im going to be homeless how can I see the kids if I haven’t got a home? Its best I just go as I am nothing without my kids NOTHING
Some more
M – The kids want to c u, and again I ENCORAGEED THEM AGAIN LAST NIGHT. I tell them u love them and they need to c u, and THEY WANT TO
W - Not as much as they want to be with u
M – WTF, this isn’t a completion, its not who is better than who. The damage caused to kids by div is unreal. Yes I have changed, but this isn’t about me, NEVER WAS AND NEVER WILL BE
W – I want them 50/50 but they don’t as a mother how does that make me feel
M – Im sorry u feel that way, and I empathise completely More….
W – If I don’t get 50/50 there is no reason to carry on
Later….after many more of W having a go
M – Me doing the donkey work again, please leave me alone now
PLEASE LEAVE ME ALONE NOW. I HAVE BEEN STRONGER THAN I THOUGH I COULD BE, LEARNT A LOT ABOUT WHO I AM. BUT I NEED, YES NEED FOR U TO LEAVE ME ALONE NOW
W – No not until I have the kids
W – I left u not the kids
M – I know u keep throwing that bitterness in my face. Life will teach us consequences, so keep telling yourself what you have done, leaving me…….and you should have a clear conscience to leave me alone now. PLEASE, THAT’S IT LEAVE ME BE
W – F**K u
Later……..
M - This is not a comp for the kids, they are not pawns
W – I know there not pawns, I want equal rights to my kids ur turning them against me
M – I don’t need to do that as u are doing a fab job on ur own
W – Really, u never brought he kids up I did, I should have left years ago
W – Congratulation xxxx I have just been told that the kids want to spend more time with you than me, well as of 12 Nov im homeless that’s when I will be gone for good.
There were a few more up to 10pm
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more