This was W day to pick the kids up for her 4 nights, This is the first time really that I bit, I know I shouldn’t have, I had been doing quite well with db principles, but something had to give.

W (this was her 2nd text) – I f**king hate u!!!!!!! My kids don’t want to b with me anymore, u win xxxx take everything cause im not gonna be around much for much longer

M – W!!!!!!

M – I win nothing, its not a competition. I would rather be happy than right, any day of the week. Please don’t talk like u r, please

M – The kids love u, and so do others, Please W, don’t talk like u r

W – Im going to be homeless how can I see the kids if I haven’t got a home? Its best I just go as I am nothing without my kids NOTHING

Some more

M – The kids want to c u, and again I ENCORAGEED THEM AGAIN LAST NIGHT. I tell them u love them and they need to c u, and THEY WANT TO

W - Not as much as they want to be with u

M – WTF, this isn’t a completion, its not who is better than who. The damage caused to kids by div is unreal. Yes I have changed, but this isn’t about me, NEVER WAS AND NEVER WILL BE

W – I want them 50/50 but they don’t as a mother how does that make me feel

M – Im sorry u feel that way, and I empathise completely
More….

W – If I don’t get 50/50 there is no reason to carry on

Later….after many more of W having a go

M – Me doing the donkey work again, please leave me alone now

PLEASE LEAVE ME ALONE NOW. I HAVE BEEN STRONGER THAN I THOUGH I COULD BE, LEARNT A LOT ABOUT WHO I AM.
BUT I NEED, YES NEED
FOR U TO LEAVE ME ALONE NOW

W – No not until I have the kids

W – I left u not the kids

M – I know u keep throwing that bitterness in my face. Life will teach us consequences, so keep telling yourself what you have done, leaving me…….and you should have a clear conscience to leave me alone now. PLEASE, THAT’S IT LEAVE ME BE

W – F**K u

Later……..

M - This is not a comp for the kids, they are not pawns

W – I know there not pawns, I want equal rights to my kids ur turning them against me

M – I don’t need to do that as u are doing a fab job on ur own

W – Really, u never brought he kids up I did, I should have left years ago

W – Congratulation xxxx I have just been told that the kids want to spend more time with you than me, well as of 12 Nov im homeless that’s when I will be gone for good.

There were a few more up to 10pm


Me - 37
W - 38
D - 14
S - 12
Together - 16
Married - 12
Bomb - April 13, 2011
W moved out - May 13, 2011

The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more