Telemark, I think it's sickening what you can find on line. It's way too easy to get a D. All you need is a whimsical notion a web browser.
I am glad you are keeping youself busy and doing some positive things.
You have handled youself like a true gentleman throughout this. It's very clear you have changed from when you first started this relationship but unfortunately your W has not done likewise.
Man, I know that's going to be tough going through those Christmas decorations.