Ohh, this is the actual ending to the email which I sent to W before she walked in the house

"So, as you stated in your solicitors letter (dated 30th September) I seem to be rushing matters, and as you have requested again you do not wish to do through solicitors, I will place my solicitor on hold (for now), so it's over to you for the time being, I will do nothing now, the ball and timeline are in your court. Please let me know how you wish to proceed from here"

Me - 37
W - 38
D - 14
S - 12
Together - 16
Married - 12
Bomb - April 13, 2011
W moved out - May 13, 2011

The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more