(and this ISNT the craziest bit, that comes a few weeks later!, which is why I am detailing this as I am, as I will need to refer to it!!!!)
Still no reply from my last text, so I text W with “????” at 9.15am
After the constant chasing, badgering and request to meet/talk and sort this out ourselves I finally said “what do you want to sort out” instead of the usual NO.
So still no reply by 5pm, so I sent W and email stating that she is playing games basically, nothing confrontational in it, just facts, times, her requests and my responses.
15min later I get a call from W, and I was just getting my tyres changed so decided not to take it.
Got home half hour later, as I walked in the back door, W let herself in the front. The opening exchange was
M – Ohh, hello
W – hi
M – Just come on in
Then W launched at me verbally, shouting so loudly the whole street would have heard. Luckily D14 was out, but S12 was upstairs and heard it all. During W’s 10min rant, I was calm, did not raise my voice, swear or called her any names.
The screaming was about me applying for D14’s child benefit Some of it was like:
W – You f**king W***er, u taking D14’s child benefit, I wont be able to afford my rent
M – Child benefit is for the kids, not rent, I have spoken to the cb agency and they have said by law you have to inform them your circumstances have changed. You have to have the kids 56 days out of 112 to have the cb, you do not meet this by a long way
W – You f**king C***, I cannot afford my rent, so I will be moving back home on Nov 12, its my house, I’m on the mortgage
M – No you wont, sorry, that is not in the interest of the kids
W – What you would go to court and get an injunction against me
M – If that is what is needed to project me and my children, then that is what I will do. I don’t want to do that
W – You F***, well you get the drift, this name calling and shouting went on a while
Subject turned to W’s OM, cannot remember how it went but a bit was
W – I started seeing OM after we split up, so its not adultery
M Astounded by that comment - Are you still married?
W – Yes
M – Well its adultery then, its immoral, unethical and not right
W walks out the front door, slamming the door so hard against the wall she nearly broke my limited edition 3D Star Wars famed pic !!!!
Then walks back in, screams some more abuse at me, then leaves again in the same manner.
10min later I text W, saying, sorry I had a missed call from u, was that all about D14’s child benefit. WELL, text came in thick and fast for the next 4hrs, must have been over 100!!!!
Some snippets of this are coming next!
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more
