A fork in the road - EA admitted by wife

[2thepoint]

NYCP - please re-read and digest what Accuray and others are telling you. In the long run, you will save yourself additional heartache if you follow as much as possible, the advice you are being given. If nothing else, consider their points and how they apply to your sitch and act accordingly.

One thing you MUST UNDERSTAND is that you cannot control what your W does, thinks, says, etc. She controls these things. But, what you can control is what you do, think and say.

The only thing you may be able to do regarding your W is influence, but only by your actions, not your words. Your actions (i.e. those things that make you a better you are the things that if given ample time, may cause your W to re-think things).

Think of your situation like a sand castle on the beach near the tide line. You know that eventually a wave will come along and wash it all away. And there ain't a damn thing you can do about it. Your only hope is to rebuild a new sand castle further inland. And even then, there are no guarantees.

Your W's decision/behavior in it's current form is like the wave that you know will wash away the sand castle. Accept that fact because there is nothing you can do about it. Work on you and only you and maybe, just maybe, your W will believe again.

BUT YOU KNOW THESE THINGS ALREADY, RIGHT?