Hi, DC, everything sounds good. You seem to have peace within yourself. I am amazed at the difference from when you first posted.
One thing, when or if om comes back, ignore his very existence. Don't take the bait when your W acts out. Be as upbeat and friendly as you always are. You'll get through it fine.

How many days sober now? I think it's just great that you've come this far.

vc