You can't approach this...she has made her feelings very clear. If you "approach this" you are NOT giving her space.
"Living together but separated" is a difficult, if not impossible, situation. Your is even more complicated with your D9; I really feel for you. My W and I tried "living together but separated" for 5 months...disastrous results.
If I could do everything over again, I would make the superhuman effort to be nothing more than a polite acquaintance to my W, and even then...no guarantees. But any step you try to take toward her will result in her taking two steps away from you.
Continue to devote your time only to your girls. To you, your W should be a roommate, nothing more.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS
