Thank you for dropping by my latest thread in Piecing and for offering your words of support. I have read through your threads and definitely see some similarities in our situations! I also see that your husband is still emotionally invested in your marriage on some level, so you have great reason to hope that things can improve. THAT is why it's so important that you keep DB'ing like a rock star! I personally think you are doing great. My advice to you is to continue working on detachment and toward your own personal goals and to keep up the great GAL. It took a long time for detachment to "kick in" for me, but once it did, real change in MY life began to happen. I know that even if my marriage wouldn't have been saved, I would still be a better lc4 on the other side of this storm.
Any time you feel like things are completely hopeless, just read through my thread again! It took us hitting rock bottom - as a couple and as individuals - to start making the climb back up. If we can make it, anyone can!
Take care, and know that I'm praying for you. hugs, lc4