Another very nice exchange with kids and H yesterday.
He usually brings the kids home at 1, at 12:30 I texted him if he could meet me at the park/farmers market instead. He agreed and we had a nice 1/2 hr shopping and chit chatting.
Each week there are so many times I want to text him and say "did you see the article on blah blah.." or "your favorite author has a new book" or "yay the yankees choked" but I never send those texts. I store those topics for chit chat and this weekend I actually used some of them.
Also cell phone company called me last week to tell me H bill was unpaid. I wanted to text but instead I did nothing and guess what? today I checked our checking acct and he paid it.
On Sept. 12 my H had his lawyer call my L (who is also my father) and say we are getting a D but no action no paperwork and he is still depositing paychecks into shared account. hmmm?
Things are looking pretty good. I just get impatient and want them to go faster. I dont want my girls to have 2 Christmas.
So grateful for this board. When I tell friends that the good news is he hasnt actually filed for a D, they think its crazy.
My motto for the day is NO NEGATIVE VOICES
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
