Yesterday was the big 4-0. Kept it low key - but did spend the day feeling grateful that things are better. Then had a tiff with W this morning, where she implied I had "anxiety issues" over the planning of our upcoming work abroad. (Found out that because some other folks haven't been on top of things we may not have our visas in time to do the work, or enroll kids in school there, or rent our house) Truth is, maybe she's right. I have no idea just how stressed someone in my situation ought to be. Thought I'd been very calm about the whole thing, despite some set backs. I think my W is tired of dealing with famity stuff wants some FUN. She is also about to turn 40 and I think it's bothering her....
