Actually - I'm done anyway. SLOW DOWN...good grief Peter...you CAN decide to end it. You hurt. You are angry. I get that...but why so fast?
You were "willing to do anything" how many hours or days ago?
You admitted recently that you tend to be impulsive and anger too much and are NOT calm.
IF you have learned so much about yourself...then slow down and react DIFFERENTLY...like the new man you say you are.
Don't you think you MIGHT want to sleep a few nights on this? I mean come on...slow down, take a breath...
Infidelity wasn't always a deal breaker, but the fact that she's lied consistently and as not taken any blame for the breakdown of our M and tried to work things out.
She has not had time for that.
I like myself now and I hope to find someone who likes and respects me.
How are you different now? How is your behavior this minute, different? It's easy to claim change when all is well....but you are being tested.
So pass this test. Sit on this a bit. THEN If you are sure you've pondered things thoroughly enough AND that your info is accurate, so be it.
At least you will have seen the L BEFORE YOU TELL HER ANY OF THIS...arm yourself with knowledge...show you are a different man by reacting thoughtfully and without haste.
I'm sure it will be for her friend (who I know cheats on her H), it'll be another lie because it has the checkout time on the invoice. They can't predict that when you are checking in.
this^^ I don't understand...what do you mean?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016