He just told me he is done. He is not happy and has not been for a long time now. He has no plan as when he is leaving. I did not ask if it was a divorce or seperation.
Do NOT ASK...
he does not know what he wants and even if he did, he can change his mind. But the more you ask the more you make him answer...
if he says he wants "Out" then you are only cementing and solidifying his choice. Don't corner him into that.
Don't issue an ultimatum b/c you are uncomfortable with uncertainty. With uncertaintly there is hope.
Do not initiate ANY R talk right now. Finish reading the DB and Div Remedy books asap.
Back off all relationship talk for now. I'll post more in a few...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
