The pain comes and goes with me. Sometimes I just think of all the pain ex brought my way and don't miss him at all. Sometimes I think of all the good times and really miss him. I have to work on not thinking about him at all, that is when I am at my best.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11