Thanks so much for the replies everyone! As for what to say in the conversation, I am really not sure. Right now, she has not initiated contact with me in about 3 weeks or more. During that time, I've talked to her once. I guess I will just show interest in her day to day life? The pharmacy school application was due Nov 1, so maybe I could ask about that? Maybe how her family is doing?

Right now I just feel like nothing is going to work and I've blown my shot at getting her back already. We started out trying to be friends, but that wasn't working b/c I did the exact opposite of the DB method. I'd give anything to take that back, but I know I can't. I'm running out of ideas since she won't even text to ask how things are going