Thanks Denver, good to hear from you.
Yes I know, no contact anymore. I don't think I even want to either, I am sick to death of it and her.
She doesn't love me and has said that her decision is final and she's not changing her mind, so I am done anyway. I don't think I want to see her again or talk to her, I actually just wish I had never met her now.
I will just wait out the next few months until mid February and the divorce goes through and let it go now.
It sux, as I still miss her so much but I can just see this getting so nasty which is so sad and strange for a couple like us.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011