i have my misserable life on my own, and im sure one day i may be happy again , in the mean time ,im finding it hard to deal with life in general and my own emotions, and i cant bear to hear you going on about how life is better now i have gone, ,life goes on and you have every right to now enjoy it, but isnt it a shame it took me to leave you, before you realised that there is a life out there, look at it from my point of view ,you did nothing with me in all the seven years of marraige and now ive left, you are living it up, took you seven years to do it now, and find out, you have had 18 years of my life and ive got nothing to show for it, you have taken my lfe way, and taken all my dreams with it , i just hope you dont do it to the next woman in your life, because you have ruined mine, and nothing you can do now would bring that back