The situation is that she is and always has been surgically attached to her mother. They even have exotic holidays together. There is another possible input from a so called friend of mine, but W tells me it was her mother that paid (loaned) the money. W intends to pay it back in full and I wonder if this is what the solicitor visit is about, to see if she can force me to sell and give her 50%.
I have tried going dark and it lasts a few days before there is some reason she contacts me. The first time I did it, she tried to ring my disconnected mobile and eventually appeared on my doorstep to enquire why I had stopped talking to her. We had a chat on Thursday and I asked her if we had any little spark that we could build on. She "Doesn't know". I told her on Friday that I was going to the fireworks and would she like to come? It was umm and ahh, then, "Well it's not really my thing". Left it at that. Late Friday had a text about her brother being taken into hospital. I enquired after him at 6PM and got a response at 9PM that he was out of hospital and it was a false alarm. "Did you see the fireworks? x" Told her yes and shame she wasn't there because it was cold and would have appreciated a snuggle. Last thing Sat night I sent her a goodnight text with kisses and got back "Goodnight x". So I don't know what I am doing, right or wrong and if I am fooling myself that there is anything left. I have not contacted her at all today and had nothing from her.
