alcoholic H decided he wants D

[imthemom]

really proud of myself this morning...:)
this DBing really does make you feel better about things. H was here this morning to pick S14 for the day again. that alone makes me happy, me S is so happy this past 2 days with all the time he is spending with his D. He came in since S was still not ready. I was dressed to go to church, went to check out a new service of a friend, so looked nice. He had been to an AA meeting (he goes to one every sun. am) so I asked how his meeting was, something i never do, not sure why. so we talked about his meeting and then asked about my FIL...he has skin cancer but is doing well.
it was a nice exchange...he offered to look at my truck that is giving me trouble so we went out and did that, he then offered to replace the part for me if I go pick it up. I felt really positive when they left, i still think he is just pacifying me but i guess theres something to be said about taking what you can get.
if nothing else my S was really happy..he was watching intently so I was glad we could be nice for him. I guess we will see how it goes at our Co Parenting meeting tomorrow.. that is were i usually hear the stuff i dont want to hear but im going to have a good attitude and approach it as what it is..a chance for us to work on what we can do to make this as easy as possible on our S.
we will be talking about how to handle sitting him down together and telling him that the D is going to happen. Im assumeing that is why there has been no talk of his papers. He is waiting for this meeting. That is not something i am looking forward to at all and have not pushed for it but he (H) has. Its going to be hard to tell S something like that knowing how he is going to react but i guess it is inevitable....
on the up side, he is not with her...and that is always a good thing in my book.