I find it amazing how in time their family sees the big picture of everything that happened. The initial reactions are always to protect their loved ones. They defend them to the hilt without ever seeing all that the picture involved. After time the one's who really give a rats ass always see the true picture and eventually you have those meetings with them where you get the only vindication you will receive from them. Recognition that it wasnt all because of you.
Awesome on your boy FIB, I have been seeing the pics of him that you put up and he appears to be doing great. The additional time with your kids because of her om thing, enjoy it. I do