Nope, my shirt is on! I wish I was wearing a different one but I only have so many pics to choose from at the moment. In one I'm hugging a sculpture of a frog, I titled it "love is in the air. Can you feel it?" In another I'm sitting on a rock posing like the thinker, caption reads "thoughtfully planning our perfect date". I've got a head shot titled "me, myself and I" and a full body shot titled "why not take all of me!" I figure these fun titles give woman something to comment on when they email and showcase part of my personality. I usually get emails like "Hi, check out my profile, let me know" or "hope there's a connection here" I'm left wondering "why would there be, tell me!" Anyway, something that I've discovered in the brief time I've been doing this is that it forces me concentrate on my positives. When you write up your profile you're sharing what you like about yourself and what others will like. My profile is 100% true and who I really am. When you email someone, you're trying to say "hey, I'm pretty darn good!". I sat down and wrote out a list of all my desirable qualities and I'm up to 60 now. Each day I want to re-write them in this way "I am ....." I keep adding each day. So far, this has been positive for me. It's building my self esteem, not hurting it at the moment. I also think that guys get far less emails than women do. We're supposed to be the hunters and women still expect it. So I hunt when I see something I want to catch. So G, you've really got nothing to lose. I use a free site, POF (often labeled "Plenty of Freaks") but some of the pay sites are only about 10-15 bucks a month. Give it a whirl, see what happens!
