BTW, re: the new EA/A evidence, has it changed your view in any way re: exposing or saying to W that you are not OK with it? Sometimes recognizing the depth/intensity of the EA/A attachment motivates the LBS to take steps to disrupt it.
you think his wife believes he's okay with it? She knows he knows.
Or you just think his telling others about it, will somehow make her feel all better and return to him, OR all bad and return to him hanging her head in shame? Guilt won't get her to stay.
Please Read up on how exposure like that (to 3rd parties) has consistently failed, miserably. To my knowledge, telling others has never worked on this site. It backfires and makes the LBSer look punitive and vindictive.
She has NOT had time to process this decision or its' impact...So please, do a course of action for enough time before discarding it, and risking everything.
Buster, How did it work for you?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
