Looking for the silver lining...

[irishblessings]

No worries about hijack - it's an interesting topic. and 25 I agree with you - it is a difficult time for men and women. In my case - I work in public education and I find the behavior of the co-worker really disturbing for a man who also works in the field.

Funny story with my situation - as I've shared XH and OW are "coaching" middle school ball together. The parents are appalled - they hold hands and hang on each other before practices and all. Anyway - OW takes players in classroom to give them a "life lesson". Now mind you = this is a woman who has no degree and milks the welfare system because of a so-called back problem that prevents her from working - but she's ok to coach and run around on the floor. Oh well - my son and I have 6 months left to be around the school and them. That's a relief.