A fork in the road - EA admitted by wife

[BklynMom]

Quote: I asked her if the last few months had been like the rest of our M would she still be seeking a D. She said no

This is a very good sign. Walk towards the light. She does see hope. The d process is not that quick. You should be accomodating to your W that you are moving forward with the D that she initiated but make sure your L moves slowly. Maybe tell your W you are still interviewing L when in fact you already found one that you like.

The quote above shows that she has seen a change. Keep it Up! Dont Give Up!! This is not easy. You are doing this not only for yourself but for you 2 girls - they would tell you to keep fighting.

As far a GALing. Try a support group. I like ALANON but there are so many. They are usually free or cheap and its instant friends. In the NY area there are so many meetings you can def. create some mystery around them. Dont tell your W its a support group cause thats not very sexy.

Keep it Up!