your goal is to get her to doubt her choices, not defend them.
So you can give her information that casts doubt on her vision...NOT saying to tell her all these things, but maybe a few...
e.g., 1) the money amount is OFF...and will be determined by a court but your L used the guideline the state provides and that's that...
2) I have never heard of a div situation whereby the father gets to rent a closet somewhere and see his kids in the former marital home...that's only in the WAW's fantasy
3) any tenant who is male would = cohabitation, and therefore any alimony, IF ANY, would cease then, as it would be cohabitation...
3) her support would go down anyhow as the girls age and alimony won't be permanent either. That's IF she gets it.
4) why should you remain on the mortgage, which prevents you from buying another house when you start YOUR NEW life?
But she can have the house---she'd just needs to buy you out, and have the mortgage be in HER name, and her salary and maybe a 2nd job, and your support can help pay that. (Yeah I bet she'll love that idea). She's unhappy, confused and misinformed. Bad combination.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
