Whatever you tell her board is going to come with some costs to YOU. Think hard about it.
But yeah, I'd wonder about saying something. She basically sent porn over the internet, which may even be a crime. As for sending it to YOU, what on earth was the goal in that?
What did your h say THEN??
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016