Push/pull, push/pull. This looks like a classic example of someone who is conflicted.

Try not to engage if at all possible. Tell you W you need time to think about it. Take a couple if days if you need to and see what else develops.

It looks to me like she is trying to engage so that you'll react and solidify her resolve. Don't take the bait!

Keep doing your best DB and see what develops!

Me51 W53 S17 S14
M22 T25
Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11

It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.

Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife