A fork in the road - EA admitted by wife

[NYCPeter]

What are the issues or things she HAS SAID she wishes were different with you two?

- That I was less focussed on work and more focussed on her and the girls - I have done that, work is left at work I am involved in all activities and instigate many myself.
- That she controlled the finances - I have taken an active role in figuring out how we can budget every month.
- That she felt I didn't love her - well I've tried to show that, but she doesn't want it and it turns into pursuit. I do little thoughtful things, although I have said ILY too many times over the last few months.

She came home early from work last night, we had a 5 min chat and she went to bed. I did not pursue, I did not ask any Q's.
She definitely stayed on her side of the bed, so a day later the intimacy has gone again.